Marriage Mondays: “My Personal Hype-man” Edition

I’ve always struggled with self-esteem. Something Papa quickly learned once we began dating. I wasn’t looking for him to fix it. However, he quickly took on the job of making sure he poured constant positivity into my spirit. It didn’t matter if I was dressed up or dressed down, whether my hair was a mess, or I’d gained a little weight…He never let a moment pass without telling me how beautiful I was. He made me feel just as beautiful on the inside as he did on the outside.

Realizing my self-worth and confidence was never dependent upon Papa and how he made me feel. That was something I had to discover on my own, but Papa was still there to keep me encouraged. After all these years, nothing has changed. He’s still my personal hype-man, giving me an extra boost on the days I look and feel good and making me smile on the days I struggle to see what God has placed inside of me.

A healthy marriage will create an environment that’s dedicated to helping both partners become the best version of themselves. It should never be one-sided. It’s about knowing what your significant other needs and helping them discover it.

There’s no need to guess, ASK your spouse how you can encourage them. Listen, write it down, and commit to being there in the way they need you to be.

I promise you it will transform your relationship in ways you’ve never imagined.